You may not know it, but each
one of us already possesses the charisma we all wanted to
Of course, with charisma, nothing is impossible. People will
easily notice us, like us, follow what we have to say, respect our
decisions, and eventually love us. Who wouldn’t want this kind of
appreciation? Therefore, it is overwhelming to actually have such
Charisma, or the ability to inspire one’s enthusiasm or interest
by means of personal charm, is already within us. We only have to
know some secrets in order to unleash it from within us. But why?
What can charisma possibly do for us that we should be concerned in
setting it free from our internal walls? The many advantages of
charisma include getting other people to notice you, making you
likeable, influencing others, bringing out the best in you, and
bringing you a better and healthier lifestyle.
To fully enhanced charisma from within, you ought to know its
elements that are essential in making you appealing and influential
in front of other people. First, there is the smile – the most
heartwarming gesture you can give to other people, without really
costing anything. Its priceless feature should not prevent you from
sharing it to all the people you know and meet along the way.
However, to have that most charming smile, you have to consider a
few things like proper dental hygiene and a healthy diet.
Body language is another essential element of charisma. Even
without words, the body can communicate using gestures and
movements. To always remember how to use body language effectively,
you must take N-O-T-E of it: making use of Nods, Open Arms, Touch,
and Eye Contact. Other gestures that can communicate include the
eyebrows, the head, the hands, and the feet. Awareness of the
meaning they convey can help you speak to other people without
really moving your lips and uttering words.
Next, we have the positive sense of humor. We use this in order
to break the monotony of a serious conversation. If you know how to
crack jokes naturally, without hurting or offending other people,
you can easily fascinate them and they will like the way you
The fourth in our list of charisma’s essential elements is
friendliness. If we make friends with a lot of people, it would be
easy for them to recognize your worth. Being friendly includes
getting rid of all your unfriendly behavior, having a friendly
mindset, anger management, and apologizing sincerely for any
Confidence is another element you need to develop in order to
enhance the power of charisma. This refers to believing and having
faith in yourself and in what you can do. Confidence helps in
carrying out a plan and in making it a success. Improving your
confidence starts with dealing with your inferiorities. Accept that
nobody is perfect, but you can do something to overcome your
limitations and actually change them into your advantage.
Finally, to complete the spells of charisma, you have to be true
to yourself – being just you anywhere, all the time. This means
having no hesitations and no pretensions. If people see you not
imitating anybody else, they can easily trust you and accept you
for who you are; they will eventually like you. Being yourself
doesn’t require any rules but to stay who you are, wherever you
Aside from the essential elements you need to develop, the power
of charisma can be totally completed by perfecting your physical
charm, intellectual influence, social appeal, and spiritual power.
After all, enhancing charisma is an over-all personality
However, when you have finally developed the power of charisma,
be careful not to overuse it. Like confidence, when you
overemphasize charisma, it can break you, rather than make you; it
can change you for the worse, and not for the better. Hence, apply
the right amount of charisma in everything you do. We want to be
noticed, followed, respected, and loved, and not to be neglected,
annoyed, disobeyed, and loathed.