Desire to win!
The desire to have some overt sign of success is great when there are feelings of unconscious competition.
Anything can become a contest – the desire to have the last word on a debate, the desire to be the best dressed on a party, or even the need to finish first in an experiment.
These are all illustrations of the necessity to win.
When you continually feel compelled to top the story told by another, your mind works on how to actually make it happen.
Think success and believe that you are capable of being successful. Cease to think in terms of what you cannot do, but in terms of what you can do. Never think failure because if you do, who knows what will happen?